confused.....want to do something.....

[pearlharbr]

Argh, Orchid, what a crappy start to the day.

Sorry I only have a minute here, but a couple things:

song is right - do NOT use the same lawyer. Get your own. That doesn't mean you're making things easy for him by going along with the process. It means you are putting yourself first and looking out for your best interests. I don't know much at D laws since I'm not married, but I do know in some states it can happen whether you like it or not so best to be fully prepared. The important thing is to learn about the process and get someone who will be fighting strictly for you.

No, do NOT call him! Remember the three day goal?? This is not an emergency. The only reason you should initiate contact in the next few days is a life or death emergency. Trust me on this: you will feel much worse if you call him. Been there, done that, trying to get you off to a better start.

Either focus on learning about D law and finding a good lawyer for you or just try to put it aside until Monday. Yes it will need to be dealt with but you've discovered that nothing is due by Monday so it can wait.