Thanks song & Puppy. Just a little more guidance please. When you say what I will and will not accept. My expectation is that if this is innocent and he's being a helpful friend - that he will talk with me about it and let me know when he's talked with her.
I will not accept that they are talking and him hiding it because he thinks I'm afraid that something is going on. I'm also not OK with the amount of time they're are spending on the phone. I think he needs to encourage her to look for other areas of support.