Why do you want the long table? Why do you want anything from the house? I would leave it all there and either go buy some new stuff you love at a furniture store or even go to garage sales or second hand stores and find stuff there that you like.
Also, if you do go through a divorce, you can let her keep the furniture and you can take the cash equivalent (which will definitely be higher then it's worth).
I don't understand why you keep engaging your wife in arguements. You should be detaching and emotionally moving on.
Look at the next 7 months as a time for YOU. You get to GAL, make new friends, discover new things about yourself, old things you've forgotten.... Look at it as an adventure.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
