I tried to get my W to go to Retrouvaille. Got close but didn't make it. They have to want to go...it will come across as pursuit.

U can try with the understanding that you have nothing to lose and risk 'a backslide'...which..is not a bad risk if you know what I mean. Personally, I would want to see SOME interest on her behalf...so....not really sure if you should. Since you don't want to file, may want to consider it an LRT in the sense that after this....you just let go and pray and move forward.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;