I can't even believe it! The counselor's office just called and cancelled our appointment for tonight! I called my H and told him and he said can we just find someone else? Neither of us felt real great about our 1st session with her. So I've started the process to find a new counselor.
I told him we really need to talk. He suggested we have dinner together tonight. I'm going to talk about how much our friend has been relying on him and my concerns about the amount of time they're spending on the phone. I'll use the point that what if roles were reversed - how would you feel?
It's a little weird to me that after I talked to him on the phone yesterday about all the phone calls to X, I come home to have dinner made and he made small talk all evening, we watched TV together, but yet he goes down to the basement to sleep.
Any suggestions for how I discuss this with him? By the way, so far everyone who's responded so far (2 people)seems to think I shouldn't talk to her about it. We have plans to do something this weekend. My friends however (one of them a mutual friend) say I should share my concerns with her. I'm so confused!
