YES!!!!! I left that link here. KerryK...you are the youtube link King...can you find that Queeg scene where he breaks down. THAT IS MY W EXACTLY.
This weekend I have an 8lb affidavit to reply to and we may have some difficult stuff to do. I try to not fault myself for having to defend myself...and fall into the 'L's drive this'....but she files motion after motion...even about vacations.
I may have to force the situation, even at the risk of financial ruin....so that I can start over without her.
I can't even begin to explain how much she has changed....so pathologically so. She even now dumps my laundry in front of the cat's litter box to be pee'd on.
I'ts OK....I toss it in the wash which includes her stuff...it's laundry, right?
MEOW.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
I can't even begin to explain how much she has changed....so pathologically so. She even now dumps my laundry in front of the cat's litter box to be pee'd on.
I'ts OK....I toss it in the wash which includes her stuff...it's laundry, right?
MEOW.
FIB
FIB,
I don't know how you do it. You are an inspiration. Hang in there my friend. Better days are ahead.
I personally get VERY upset when I read about mother's NOT allowing their little kids sleep with their fathers as if? What? I mean, that is so low and mean and crazy and I cant believe they do that...
You must not be human... (to be able to keep you cool thru this mess)(a compliment in case you missed it) K
FIB, I should be asking myself this question, but what are you doing to keep your sanity? (When I had to live in the same house with a raging W and the kids around I'd take the kids out for ice cream or dinner or to do their homework in the university library or I'd go to my office or a friend's house and get home after everyone was in bed to avoid banging doors, etc. As I entered the house I'd be on my cellphone with family or friends - just in case there was trouble before I got to bed. I was warned that some of these crazy W's have been known to stir up the best of men and then file a restraining order. One evening she was so out of line that I had to go with a friend to a police station and ask for their advice. Perhaps what I did was overkill but you never know)
fb2....I do the same....sadly, I keep away from the house when I can with the kids.
Atty called....something big I have to do. It's going to be rough but I have no choice now but to protect myself. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Ha...funny....a countermotion....FIB. Things may get hot in here.
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;