Keep it up. You're doing great. Remember it's all about doing 180's and being CONTROLING is something A LOT of us need to work on. Your 7 yr old is also NOT in control either. It's very hard on them not to be able to have control over their lives let alone having to choose which parent or whose house they are going to. It's a good idea to have your kids make a lot of everyday choices to give them a feeling of some control in their lives. I always am giving my daughter choices to give her some sense of comfort in this chaos. Do you want to wear this shirt or that one? Do you want pancakes or cereal? Which of these 3 books do you want me to read with you? It really helped with her attitude and security.
