Over the Shock - Detaching and GALing 3

[Thinker]

Now I am sitting here thinking. What I have been doing is not working, so what do I need to do differently.

I need to keep working on myself, per the discussions yesterday. No change there - that is for me, not her or the R.

I am not sure how to proceed living in a house together with a W who refuses to be either open or honest; who will neither work with me on the R, nor fully give up contact with OM, nor even admit that she is doing anything wrong.

Am I back to trying to bust the A -- Again!