Oh it bothers him hugely that I`ve spoken about our sitch to my family and a couple of trusted friends. He hates that they know about`the secrets of our marriage` and feels that he is the aggressor and why can`t I pretend that everything is ok.
I`m actually at the point of just getting on with things and not sharing my sitch with my family anymore though I`ll answer truthfully what questions I`m asked. Not pretending all is wonderful either, since it plainly isn`t, but that there is more to life, me and the kids can still be happy and we`ll hang like this until something can be figured out.
