Not feeling like a priority means one of your LLs is Quality Time. You probably show her love by making time, planning things and "doing nothing" together. Find out her LLs and show her love back in her terms and watch what happens. If your W was to say let's go away for the weekend and just relax how would you feel (besides shocked) ? You are now her priority and you feel loved by her. Give her the love she needs with no expectations because it is good for you. You can handle it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.