Ok, I lied. This is addictive. I've decided that I will still try to find out OM's name and attempt to contact his wife. She can affect his life on a whole different level than mine. The wife informed me that she bought curtains for her apartment yesterday--ok, translation, she's digging in for a while. She also stated that she would be living there until the lease ran out and/or we pcsed. She said just because we're seperated and/or divorced doesn't mean we'll never get back together. Can't we just be friends for now? (yeah, ok sure, whatever--no)Something else that struck me as funny but not really was a statement she made yesterday of her thinking that I wouldn't be able to take care of her as I don't think I'm good enough to get a decent enough job? Ok, she obviously doesn't respect me at all. That's kind of a blow from the woman I married. I talked w/ MIL last night and told her she may have ended her relationship w/ her D for life by intervening. She said oh well, she's wrong and she knows it but obviously doensn't care. I told her of the new story of there is no OM and she laughed and asked if I believed it. Of course not. So, I think the key is to find out who the OM's wife is and just not worry about the wife for a while. I mean, why should I? You obviously thinks she can do better, so why waste my time at this point?
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!