FIB, I should be asking myself this question, but what are you doing to keep your sanity? (When I had to live in the same house with a raging W and the kids around I'd take the kids out for ice cream or dinner or to do their homework in the university library or I'd go to my office or a friend's house and get home after everyone was in bed to avoid banging doors, etc. As I entered the house I'd be on my cellphone with family or friends - just in case there was trouble before I got to bed. I was warned that some of these crazy W's have been known to stir up the best of men and then file a restraining order. One evening she was so out of line that I had to go with a friend to a police station and ask for their advice. Perhaps what I did was overkill but you never know)
