So she seems to think her family is her property and that you have no right to them. Maybe she thinks it's pursuing? I am not sure.
You are right, you have every right to pursue your own relationships with people who are kind enough to give you Bday presents. So I wouldn't worry too much about what she thinks on this matter.
However, this was a sign that she is still not welcoming any sort of reaching out from you. She MAY see it as intrusive so I would quit anything that could be perceived as pursuing for a little while longer. I know you didn't do it on purpose but you need to heed the sign.
Good to know you are keeping busy with work. I am so glad that Weeman is little and is not suffering from this separation.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09