Is there any hope or is the damage done

[markhaving probs]

I,

My mind is constantly thinking about my wife and her new 'single lifestyle'. With all the new clothes and underwear, trim new figure and haircut it is literally ripping me apart every time I see her, or even think of her.

We know there is absolutely nothing we can do except keep the moral high ground and work for you and your daughter. I am now trying to rise above any of the rubbish that comes my way, it shows class and it also reflects on family members and friends now and in the long run. It also shows a degree of strength and confidence, traits I have been sadly lacking in the past.

I, as a lapsed catholic have started going back to church on a Sunday morning. I cried my eyes out the first time I went two weeks ago, as it was the church where we were married, and both our children were baptised and christened. It was really tough, but I have been again on alternate weeks and it gets easier. I am starting to appreciate it as a place of worship and comfort, and I am getting a great deal from the experience. I am by no means a devout christian but I will now attend church whenever I can. I am thinking about taking my children to church but I am not sure how to broach this one, especially as it would be seen as a sign of weekness by my wife seen through WAW eyes. She would not see the benefit of what it can bring to people young and old.

Mark x