You need this movie right now. You may be thinking...it's JUST a movie, WDID....and, it is...but there are some things in there that will help you. Trust me. Watch it alone. You don't need her to watch it. Some day you can both watch it together. My H and I went to see it after Retrouvaille and I had wished I had seen it alone. It hit us both differently, and it was personal, and I wanted to be alone without my H there seeing me emotional at different points.
As for her pulling back. You both probably do this. You reach out, don't get the response you are looking for/expecting, and you pull back/build the wall. Break the cycle. Whatever you normally do when she does this...don't do it. If you normally get pis$ed and get quiet, then don't do that. Just keep loving her. Remember the things you talked about. Those things didn't just go away.
It's hard to put yourself out there, and get nothing in return. I wonder what would have happened if you tried anythign with her that night? Hard to do when you are feeling slapped in the face, but I just wonder...... (just thinking out loud)
