he is back, i think

[Puppy Dog Tails]

its a tricky boundary for me because im aware that there may be an adjustment period in coming home.

i dont like it, but i am afraid to push the issue in case he is working through things.

i dont know.

i send him nice emails, i sent one today saying nicely what i want.

If you're not willing to enforce it, then it's not a boundary -- it's a wish.