Donna--finding herself #37

[mishka422]

I don't want either of them picturing me as the weak, pathetic, unwanted ex-wife. I don't want my kids to see me that way, either.

Ok, some of that may be the hormones talking but it comes from a deep place inside you that is still battling negative thinking. You have to stop thinking of yourself as the weak, pathetic, unwanted ex-wife. I think you are projecting your own feelings toward them. Honestly, does it really matter what they think? Your xh is living his own life and really not concerned with yours. Why be concerned with his?

Yes, these are all the same things I battle every darned day so I feel your pain.