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In my sitch, my ex bestfriend and my husband still to this day believe they were just being friends. To get them to understand that it was emotional affair will never happen. My ex bestfriend had it in her mind that she was helping my relationship at first because my husband was telling her he was thinking about killing himself. This was due to depression that he still has not gone and gotten counseling for and because of her probably never will. She was being "a friend". Well the fact that my husband felt that in our relationship he couldn't talk to me and he could talk to her, guess whose grass gets watered? I agree with Puppy. Confronting her won't change a thing and honestly I doubt confronting him will either. My husband thinks my ex bestfriend is the most awesome thing in the world right now. She gave up a friendship for him. How ego inspiring is that for someone who wants to feel like he is someone's night in shining armor? And in his mind they were nothing more than friends. If either one of them would check out a link on emotional affairs they would see how very devastating they can be.