Limbo I knmw this is hard I always felt standing was not a waste of time not only for the samke of our children and M but for my own individual growth during this process, I gained more emotional growth than during any other point in my life there is no way out of this even if you quit and the way I see it now ( I didnt always see this) is it doesnt really matter what happens in the end the emotional growth and stability of the children even without H is most important so give yourself tim,e yes, Its all very unacceptable and at some point maybe with the help of MC or DB couselor you can decide what to do about the intimacy issues you face if you are violatating yourself by being with your H it is something to look at sometimes boundries are needed peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow