Limbo
I knmw this is hard
I always felt standing was not a waste of time
not only for the samke of our children and M
but for my own individual growth
during this process, I gained more emotional growth than during any other point in my life
there is no way out of this even if you quit
and the way I see it now ( I didnt always see this)
is it doesnt really matter what happens in the end
the emotional growth and stability of the children even without H is most important
so give yourself tim,e
yes, Its all very unacceptable
and at some point maybe with the help of MC or DB couselor you can decide what to do about the intimacy issues you face
if you are violatating yourself by being with your H
it is something to look at
sometimes boundries are needed
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow