its a tricky boundary for me because im aware that there may be an adjustment period in coming home.

i dont like it, but i am afraid to push the issue in case he is working through things.

i dont know.

i send him nice emails, i sent one today saying nicely what i want.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09