Again, Thank you so much for all your feedback, everybody.
So, I am sitting back a bit to see what he will do, but really working on GAL. I have been going to the gym this week, every other day or so, and my weight loss is just starting to show a bit. This morning I was getting all my stuff ready to go and he asked what S and I were doing today, and I told him gym and a street festival that is happening afterwards. When I packed a little make up (which I usually don't do unless it's a special occasion), he asked, "you're bringing make up?" I just said, "yeah, I shower there so S is happy and supervised in childcare." He didn't say anything else.
I also asked him today about going with me to the counselor on Monday. I gave him the time and asked him if he thought he wanted to go with me. I said that if he did and the time wasn't good, I would need to know today so I could change it. He said he would check his schedule and let me know. He asked how much, and I told him, but said that I would split the cost with him. (Even though I am a SAHM, I have a tiny PT job, so I have a tiny paycheck.)
Today is our anniversary, and he has been very sweet (but he is almost always very sweet).
