just dont understand why my xh cant let the talk about me go.
why take ownership of a problem thats not yours...it simply doesnt matter
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I think if I just heard his voice once in a while it would help me but would it? I mean truly, would it help me or make things worse for me? Putting him out of my life cold turkey is hurting me so much at times.
it would be worse, why subject yourself to his abuse???
IMHO you are no where near ready to date. the one guy that mentioned going out you chased for answer. you are still trying to replace your xh. fill that anguished void in your life. wouldnt be healthy and certainly not fair to the OP.
hows the hunt for counseling coming? hows the little nephew coming along. i would think you would put your energy into him instead of your xh and his antics
that gf is as messed up as he is. That R is a loaded time bomb. sit on the curb and watch them implode.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
