Seems that money is tight for everyone right now. I understand -- you have to eat, you have to pay the rent, and you have to save your marriage. All important. All necessary. Hopefully one day you'll be able to arrange to speak with a DB Coach. I know you would think that it was money very well spent.
Here's what Drew7 wrote just yesterday: Wow am I glad I scraped up the $ to get a phone session. Jody really helped put things in perspective. If there is anyone on here that hasn't had a DB phone session yet I highly recommend it.
In the meantime, hang in there - keep Divorce Busting, and come here often for encouragement and support.