I am reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and it is very enlightening as I have been enabling my wife and not setting boundaries, being a doormat etc. It shows you how to redeem your self esteem and personal power to get what you want. I really recommend it.
It seems strange to me that your W bombards you with stuff other than your D. I do not get any texts from my W that mentions her day, her problems, nothing other than the children. Is your W trying to keep an emotional tie with you so that if things go wrong with OM then she can come back to you? As hard as it is try to detach from her.
Pearlharbr is giving you great advice there and the way of treating your W as neighbour friendly is how I treat my W.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
