I am simply blown away by your post, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Yes, it seems as if my husband has moved on and is not looking back; has erased me and our life together to pursue his new life with OW. It just simply hurts like there was no tomorrow. my mum is with me here from Australia but I have no other family around me; my H's family were my family here for 10 years and now they wont even acknowledge that I exist. We went to stay with very close friends last weekend; i have to work this weekend so need to be around home. i think that taking walks and trying to get some exercise is the right things to do for sure. u am nmb Mark, completely numb. My H has turned into someone who is horrendous, I am frightened. The psychologist element, I have no doubt, is to begin his campaign of painting me out to be an unfit mother, psychologically unstable, suicidal. its a complee nightmare; I love my child with all of my heart; she is 7 and needs to be with her mother, not a 54 year old man who is living with his lover, even though he is her father. I want her to have ius both in her life but the right place for her is in the family home with me, we live one minute from her school and this is her stability here. I am so sorry to hear about your sitch, I truly understand your pain and the suffering you have been through. WAS is probably harder than MLC because they are so resolute arent they. My h is so focused, has ot wavered his path once in teh last 3 and a half months since he left. Its hard to think of the OW as irrelevant. to me she is the straw that broke the camels back.
