Okay now it's been 6 months of ?????

[pearlharbr]

Seriously Kenn, stop being her best friend. Immediately. It's enabling her and it's hurting you.

You're right, she does have OM. If she wants to be with him then let her turn to him in the bad times too. She is treating you with serious disrespect. Is that something you would tolerate from another friend?

The dynamic to aim for is neighbor friendly and no more.

And why are you answering her calls? Your D was with you so it obviously had nothing to do with her. If it is something important W will leave a message. Turn your phone off if you have to.

I'm going to recommend you read "No More Mr. Nice Guy." Not that I've read it myself but I know many men here who say it was very enlightening.

Remember, I smack with 2x4s because I care.