Left behind after ten years

[pearlharbr]

Alone, I meant to get back to you earlier today. Your post from yesterday was spot on. Great insights: own your part of the problems but do not blame yourself for everything, fix yourself for yourself, engaging in GAL activities that take you out of your comfort zone, doing things you love.

So you had a bad day today. I'm sorry, that sucks. Stuck is 100% right - it's called a roller coaster for a reason. I always try to channel Scarlett O'Hara and say, "I'll think about it tomorrow. After all, tomorrow is another day." I know that's not going to cut it for a manly man like you but you get the idea.

Why can't we just try, if not now, later? Just agree to try!

I hear that. That's all I wanted from xBF in the beginning. But you'll drive yourself crazy by holding on to that. Remember you can only control yourself. Back to focusing on you.

Have fun on your trip!