Dear Lola,
Thank you for your post and support;
I am being told by all of my friends and family that my H has flipped it; yes that he is not well.
yet he remains calm for a good part of the time; completely consistent i his desire to be away from me; to injure and damage me and t be with OW, which I think is becoming more serious by the day.
He doesnt know anything about my life; has no interest.......i could be in trouble, ill etc. he wouldnt know
the thought that he may one day wake out of this horrible place that he is in seems impossible
He seems happy with his new life and has no need for me
I feel sick