Thanks bluerain......... Oh boy, have just woken up and am really struggling everyone Its hitting me just what I am dealing with here. A WAW in MLC. And I think that he hates me. I have given ten years of my life.......he has now moved into a completely different life and i am heartbroken I dont understand how i can suffer like this; he has just left me with nothing and i dont know what to do; how to cope, how to care for our D. he is fighting me and fighting me dirty........legally, personally. He has erased me from his existence Please can someone help; because of the delayed reaction of the court case today is a bad day Top Edit