Could use some insight...long...

[K4D]

Maybe its time to play hardball with her and show her what a D means then. Its not fun and mutual. Its gut wrenching and tears people apart.

I like the way you are putting the chips in her corner. Make her give you a fair plan. Thats good. She is nuts if she thinks she can have it all. No judge is going to grant that.

Something else I learned. Find out if your judge is a dad friendly judge. Mine is. My judge had to raise his 2 kids on his own and doesn't care about the emotional crap that a WAS may bring. I couldn't expect a better judge.

If its not a dad friendly judge, ask for another judge. Your L if you have one should know who is.

Its worth checking into if you have to go to court.

If I were you, I would give her a list of what you want since she appears to think this is all a big game and yall can still be buddy buddy. If you give her that list and are firm about it, it may start to sink in to her that this is just going to be a mutal thing between yall. I don't know if it will help you. But what could it hurt? It would force her to realize reality.

Kevin