Almost to the year since I wrote this post I have discovered that my W has left the OM. My Mother's Day flowers this year were returned by him saying "she doesn't live here any more." He refused to give the delivery girl a forwarding address. I'm sure he knew they were from me and was being obstinate. Now I need to find her again, but I have many untapped resources which I saved for such a situation. Hang in there, be patient. Things DO change.
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith