btw, I did talk to S13 quick about the gf and the concert. I said that if is didn't matter to him one way or the other if she went (his words), then it wouldn't matter to me, not to worry about it. He said ok. I've told him before that it is ok with me if he finds a way to be alright with the whole situation...he had to deal with her, where as I really don't. That I was actually proud of him and his sis for getting to a place to get along, and that I was working on getting there, too.
