Sorry to hear of the bad news ... confirmed again...... Going dark & not helping her is probably best. Remember, you're to busy GAL to help.
Yep, I've heard many times that love is close to hate. Strange isn't it. I never really hated my H, I hated his actions or lack there of, of action, but not him. Maybe my sitch would have turned out different if I had.
Why? That's a never ending question.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)