Valeria I am going on with my life and I do not intend to just sit and wait. I am trying to stand for my marriage, even though we are divorced. The only thing that is bothering me, and I know I shouldnt let it is the gf is really trying to get under my skin. I have ignored them both for over 2 months now and doing the best I can. I was hoping after ignoring them that they would stop but it continues. She puts alot of stuff on her myspace, childish stuff, like xxx xxxx's LOVE or His one true love, going home to my happily ever after. Stuff like this. When I dont look, plenty of people tell me. Alot of people know us in this small town and they make it a point to let me know what she or he is doing. It dont matter if I tell them everyone I dont want to heat it, they do it anyway. They tell me when he comes into my work, they tell me when and what he says about me at the gym, its everywhere. People constantly tell me how they feel about him. I know they mean well, I just listen. I do find myself in converstaions that I wish I hadnt gotten into. I dread when they get married. WHEW! I may as well get us to it, I cant avoid it. There is this one guy I would like to have dinner with, but he is afraid of making my xh mad. This is the way people are acting. He was a cop and most people think he still is. I dont know what else to do. I havent spoken with my xh in about 2 months and he still is bringing up the situation to others. Some tell him they dont want to hear it. He is constantly trying to explain himself. Why cant he just let it be?
