I was only thinking the same thing as you in regard to dating another woman. I totally agree with you that dating could result in hurting the OW and as I have pretty high morals I would hate to think I am using another woman as a tool to get to my wife.
I agree that as a person I want to keep the moral highground, I need to work out how to get my wife to believe I am seeing somebody else. Even if she or others do not actually see OW, would it make a difference to my wife, and how do I get my wife to assume I am seeing somebody?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
