Got a call from W on the way home from work, WHILE she's making dinner for the kids that she wants to talk about the D. W: Talked to L and he is going to make a court date but I was hoping we could work this out ourselves... Me: (shocked)Ok give me something from YOU not L that you think is fair. W: I thought we could do this together Me: ummmm no just come up with something you think is fair W: What do you think is fair Me: for us to fix M W: For D Me: I don't want this you do come up with something W: I'm not sure what do you think Me: 50:50 W: not going to happen Me: Well come up... W: Ok I want it all... Me: Not going to happen, I'm going to go we're not getting anywhere W: so you're just going to hang up on me Me: No bye . . . So I guess me thinking these last two weeks she was having second thoughts well I guess not. I'm really fine with it at this point MUCH MUCH MUCH more po'd than hurt or sad. I really think she thinks that we're going to be best buddies after a D and nothing will change from the way we've been. She's wrong. I've going as dark as dark can be, not in any way to save M but my sanity.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."