New to all of this

[MrBond]

Sounds like a total MLC to me.

Only thing you can do right now is let it run its course. People in MLC will usually rebuff any help or suggestions describing what a MLC is, especially from their spouses.

You just have to keep up a certain level of detachment so that with each positive step he takes, you take with a grain of salt. Continue to live YOUR life for yourself. And as hard as it is, try not to hold onto every word and action your H does. It's going to leave you being the confused one.

That's why they call this a roller coaster. Your H is on an emotional one. But it is your choice to stay on it or be dragged along with him.

Patience and prayer are what's going to help you get through all this.