New to this Community seeking advice

[Ready2Change]

This is a test of patience. Many months. At the same time, she needs to see the changes in YOU. That is why it is critical that these changes are FOR YOU and not for her. MsR2C can see my changes. There is no attempt to "Trick" her back. I am a changed man. I practice with everyone I come in contact with. I am committed to continue changing my Thoughts,Words and Actions to become a move loving human being. I pass out what I want to receive. I want more people smiling at me, I smile at more people. This is a universal law that works. If I want W to be more understanding, I need to be more understanding.....

While you are apart, work on you. Practice, practice, practice....others will be more receptive, note the reactions to your new behavior.. Become the man any woman would be crazy to leave....

Check out the books I listed on my thread. I got a lot out of them.

Anyway, with the little contact you have, you have to project the changed man to her.

Do a lot of listening and not much talking. Make it all about her. Ask "How are you?" and then LISTEN....Lots of clues....

The way you interact with your kids they talk alot. She will listen.