WAW came by my office today to drop off D3's blanket. We ended up talking for about an hour and tlaking calmly. We talked none about our R.. only about kids.. and what we think is best for them. We had to agree to disagree a few times; but no argueing occurred.
On Love = patience and kindness... how do you show patience and kindness to your wife that is sleeping with another man?? I am not wanting problems with her... but I kinda think I need to wait at least until we get into marriage counseling for a while before I start showing her all of that? I mean can I give to much love and patience... etc now and she thinks I am a chump considering that she is getting her groove on with another man?
My thing is that she knows I don't want to loose the marriage but I don't want her to think that she is in the right by being with OM.
Any suggestions on what to do or not do.. and how to act?
