Feigned innocence? Hardly. It's a question that all of us who put so much faith in God's will all have to ask ourselves eventually. What happens when things don't go as we originally had hoped? Do we question God, or accept his will, or just hold out for what we want it to go? I don't know about you, but for me, earning trust and having faith are 2 very different struggles.
So J3B let me ask you, why do you spend so much time here? Is your relationship going so well that it takes so little effort? If so then you must be the exception to the rule.