ummmm, speaking as a woman...NOT every woman NEEDS an "alpha male." Many of us would prefer a cooperative partnership. And NOT to be told what we need.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012