This has been a decent morning. I haven't thought about exh and his very twisted life most of the morning. YEAH! Today is also a non visit day which is nice.
My sister asked me why I was so worked up about exh's new stuff (the married woman and also being on a sex hookup site). It was shocking to her to hear, but after she thought about it she wasn't surprised. After everything he has done, nothing should suprise us.
I think I get sad and upset thinking OMG! He had a great life here. He had a wife that loved him, kids that loved him, a nice home, and a real family. What the heck was so wrong with that? ST, I know you think he wasn't getting all of his needs met here, and maybe so, but I really honestly think it goes deeper into who he is and his character than that. If he just wasn't happy here he would have stayed with OW...he just keeps rolling right through people.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
