You really need to slow down and listen to what she says vs what she needs.
This isn't about being 'vulnerable', it's about being a leader, pushing her attraction buttons, making her anticipate intimacy.
Being a man. I have found two things that helped me understand that what we think women want is not what they really want.
What kind of OM did she have? Was he exciting? Unpredictable? Did he NEED her?
Even when we DB, it's when we detach and no longer need them, or might not even want them, that we become attractive again. We're not a woose any more.
Counseling is great, communication is great. Some vulnerability is great. But it's the strong decision making leader, the alpha male, that pushes a womens attraction buttons. It's a biological fact.
two things I have learned much from was "The way of the superior man" book, and writings of David Cunningham. google "david cunningham marriage"
You're on the right track. Just need one more component. Your manhood as it relates to your W.
