Enhancing Lucky's statement slightly:

Screening or withholding thoughts and emotions or avoiding asking for what you want or need, or preventing yourself from doing things that you want to do*, so that you will be loved and accepted is not genuine. It is not reflective of what is inside.

(* obviously assuming that those things are legal and don't really hurt others)

Last edited by Thinker; 05/14/09 05:31 PM.
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