Hi Future I don't think you're ready to committ to the LRT, so don't. Stop telling her you want a divorce. Stop talking about your R. No more D challenges. Maybe you should go darker. If she thinks she can divorce you and you're still going to be around when she's got nothing better to do, why wouldn't she divorce you? Maybe it's time to show her what life would really be like. And I am NOT telling you to date, but imagine if you met someone else? Someone else really great.....you wouldn't be able to do dinner with her and the kids, because you'd probably be out with your new great girlfriend. And you would spend the quality time with the kids when you had them and when you didn't, you wouldn't really be around your wife when she did. You might stay for dinner here and there, maybe when your new girl was busy or out of town....but do you get what I'm saying? At this point, you've shown your W that life will be cool when you two divorce. You'll hang out and be buddies. If that's not how it's going to be, show her how it will be. But realize, she maybe ok with that. And if she is, you have your answer. But I don't think she will be. GAL. Start cutting her out slowly but surely.
