My wife was on the phone last night taking to our D about BF problems (D's not Wife's). As I was in the other room listening I felt like that Cartoon that has the guy sitting there and the little devil in standing on one shoulder and whispering in my ear.."Ya right, BS our D how you know how to handle relationships by having affairs" And on my other shoulder is the little angel whispering "let it go you can not relive the past and you are only responsible for what you do and how you feel"....
Hey Doc, This reads like you believe W feels her A was a good thing, a healthy thing, a successful thing. Really? I'll bet (regardless of how she acted back then) that she now recognizes - at least to some degree - that it was a bad idea, unhealthy, and a mistake. She may not say that to you (people are stupid when they try to save face, ya know).
But are you really sure she would be going around promoting the idea of an A to other people, much less your D? I gotta wonder.
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
