I'm sorry but you can't be positive all the time. Sometimes we need the negativity and the pity parties to let go of some emotions. Keeping things bottled up and trying to "act" like you are in a positive mood all the time doesn't work. People who agree all the time are not helping out either. Trapt, what is the "meaning"? Explain that to me please.
I totally agree with you Trapt.
It is hard not to be "real" and even harder to put on a happy face all of the time.
MLC sucks big time, it turns our world upside down, and affects so many people in our lives.
It rips families apart, affects our jobs and friendships, etc.
It is so easy to get sucked in to the MLC'ers drama and BS.
And after a while, it is better for us to be honest with one another and to keep it real, then to sugar coat everything and give someone false hope and encouragement when the writing is on the wall so to speak.
As for MWG, it is not for us to say whether or not he is home to stay and make things work with his family.
It is not for us to pick things apart.
She has been here for a long time, and piecing is the hardest part, and I think she is ready for the challenge.
It is what it is....
We can only hope that this time it is for real, and that he just hasn't run home to seek a temporary refuge from the OW.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
