That letter will be emotional for her. Just be prepared that by the time you get home, she will have built some of her wall back up. DOn't be wishy washy ooey gooey melty man expecting her to rush to you because of the letter. Be the strong, confident man that you are and love her. And, don't forget about the stress relieving action you promised her at night.
Waitaminute . . . she needs me to be more vulnerable, and more empathetic to her feelings, but when I do, writing an epistle that would make another woman "crawl on broken glass" to me, she's going to . . . PUT HER WALL UP EVEN MORE????
hey--wait to see what happens before you react!!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
