We encountered our typical condom annoyances, but worked around it rather well.
Are you guys all done having children, or is there some potential for more?
If the answer to this "Yes, we're done, definitely done," and you (as the woman) are at or near the end of your "safe" child-bearing years (nearing 40ish), then I have one word for you:
---> Vasectomy.
It's one of the best things the two of you can do for you sex life. Trust me.
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
