We know, Pup. I was going to say something about that. THe fact that it is because you called her on her stuff that things started changing. It's "being a man" if you will. It's how you took control of your intimacy that worked well for you as well. We were just saying this was not the time to call anything but understanding how she's feeling and strength in your feelings and letting her know how this time it will be different. In a way, you needed to show your manly strength once again, just in a different way.
And yes, she needed you to reveal more to her about your feelings. I'm thinking how she is around these divorced friends who are, more than likely, talking about how divorce was the hardest thing they ever did and how, thank goodness they did it, because they are so happy now. She needs to know that NOT divorcing is hard also and that it takes MORE strength and character and love to do THAT.
